There are niche online dating sites for nearly anything you can think of, religious, non-religious, gay, swingers, college, over 40 - just name it. There are free online dating websites and paid ones, too. So, How do you choose? Well, simply follow your needs. What is most important to you?

Here is a few things to think about:

(1) Cost.

Are you willing to spend money on a membership?

(2) Features.

Profile matching systems. Allow the website to automate finding dating matches for you, or, use your own senses to find a date. Chat and IM’s? There are websites who offer chat rooms and IM’s on their websites. Does that matter, or, Would you be happy sticking to private email messaging? Are you interested in meeting people “offline”? outside events like speed dating are available? Privacy, as well. Do you want the ability to limit your exposure to who can see you and how many people can see you?

(3) Safety.

This should be your ultimate concern. The best of the best websites run background checks of all subscribers, and certify their ages, marital status and backgrounds- it's "Anything goes!" everywhere else...

You will discover your best results, if you find the website that meets your needs. Don’t fall for all the bells and whistles. Every website is “the best”, so you will need to look at a few websites, starting out. Look, 1-in-5 people met the person they are currently dating on the internet. Online dating is real, which only means there is a true possibility for you to meet that special person. So, it's important that you allow your needs to lead you in the right direction and to the right people.